{a wedding and still more question...}
How did you come up with the theme „Something Blue“?
If i only knew…
after the engagement our main concern was all the paperwork. We did not really
think about organizing the wedding itself. The Blue just came up somehow. It is
our favorite color and according to this saying something blue just belongs to
a wedding… and just imaging that our guests would also wear something blue was
just nice. It seems the theme found us.
How did you start planning?
With all the
formalities. Paperwork is not really our thing and as a binational couple there
is more to get done. Concerning the celebration I would have liked to get
married just the two of us which would have made the preparations way easier.
In Denmark you can get married way easier when you have different nationalities
for example. That would have been even easier with just the two of us present.
As you upset your parents very much when doing so we decided to get married at
least with a very small party attending.
Why didn’t you get married in Paris?
Oh, I can just
hear the ladies sigh romantically! Getting married at an office is as dull as
anywhere, being more of an administrational act than a love thing. Arnaud was
of the opinion that we should get married in Germany if we do it not “alone”.
Dresden was just the natural decision as it made planning easier (yes, we
considered other places). Anyway, this is the city where we met, where we first
kissed and where Arnaud proposed (now you can sigh!).
Who/what helped you with your preparations?
My parents
helped with everything in Germany that we could not do in person and they also
played taxi when we visited possible places, made appointments and talked about
details. I also clicked myself through tons of wedding websites and kept on
talking to Arnaud about ideas. Fortunately a lot could be arranged via e-mail.
For the formal
part a certain lady in administration was super helpful and nice (none in Dresden,
those were mostly the opposite of helpful). Without her we could never have
made the date (we gave her some delicious salt from Brittany + thankyou-note
and an official thankyou-note after the wedding to show her how much we
appreciated her help).
How does all this paperwork for a French-German couple work?
If anyone needs
help with that, just drop me a line! For everyone else, the short version… you
have to have all documents ready (birth certificate etc.) and (in our case)
send it to the French embassy in Berlin. They send you a letter stating that
you can get married and with this you go to the office responsible for you in
Germany where you have to hand in all your documents again (fortunately those
cost nothing in France, in Germany you pay for every single document!). If
they’re fine with everything they pass it on to the state’s high court. After
another waiting period you should receive the “go” and finally you can get all
those documents to the registrar’s office to talk about the actual wedding date
and the details.
The biggest
issue was that all documents have to be recent somehow, i.e. every certificate,
document etc. can not be „older“ than a certain given „age“. Sometimes that
could make you run in circles to stay up to date because all those offices like
to take their time dealing with you. The embassy needs at least month, the
state’s high court up to six weeks. We were really lucky with our registrar who
made some calls and helped us keeping our preferred wedding date. Fortunately I
had asked Dresden to keep this date early on, although they were close to
cancelling it at some point… yeah, i wrote tons of mails and made several
calls. I guess it helped that we wanted to get married on a Friday in April
(wedding (high) season in Germany starts usually in May).
How many guests did you have and why
we had decided
to get married with just our parents, siblings, my granny (the only one of our
grandparents “left”) and four friends (best men, bridesmaids). For one thing we
really wanted to keep it small and simple. If we would have started picking
members from our families it would have been war.
As the
registrar’s office allows 25 people we also invited my father’s brother and
family and my mother’s sister and family for the ceremony and the reception.
They do not live far away and it was really nice having them, especially
because Arnaud also already knew them (and liked them!). I was very happy that
all guests were indeed wearing something blue… I loved the picture (although I
may have to explain again this thing with the white blouses to some).
How do you not invite certain people?
Just don’t do
it! Seriously! Of course someone could feel mistreated but you want to spend
the best day of your lives with people who mean a lot to you and make this day
unforgettable. Why should you be upset by grumpies you do not like that make
you unhappy every time you have a look at your pictures? Some people can not be
avoided of course, like with couples where you just like one of them, but those
could be hidden in the background maybe…
Did you have a best man and a maid of honor?
Yes, but only
unofficially. In Germany you do not need them anymore to sign the wedding
documents. We would have needed an approved interpreter for all of this (as
Arnaud’s best men do not speak well enough German) and that’s really very
expensive. Nobody did mind to be “unofficial”. My dear Christiane already knew
what was coming as I had warned her a long time ago that I want her to be my
maid of honor…
How did you organize the day and how did you find your locations?
To find out how
we wanted to do things we sat in front of a map and figured out what would be
important for us. A good party has good food. Something we agreed on very fast.
We took this as a starting point and made up a nice plan from there.
From the registrar’s
office to the restaurant “Schillergarten” you just need ten minutes by foot. A
beautiful location at the river Elbe, perfect for the reception. As we were
only so few they were very flexible as well. Under hard rain we could have done
the toast inside, under a little shower we could have used the terrace (roof). As
we had wonderful sunshine we were outside in the biergarten with a lovely view on
the Elbe river and the famous “Blaues Wunder” bridge (of course, “blue
wonder”!).
I really wanted
to have some time for pictures so we sent our little party on a sightseeing
tour in the meantime. During one of our family brunches Arnaud had fallen in
love with the restaurant “Luisenhof” and the location with its view over
Dresden is really breathtaking. That we would have the wedding cake there was
an easy decision as the restaurant has its own cake shop that makes the
yummiest cakes.
After cake and
coffee we wanted a little break… to change location but also for us. Our
families could check in to their hotels and change (yap, two actually did
that), Stephanie could hand Lil T over to the babysitter, we could just take a
breath and sort out the events a bit…
We were not sure
where to have dinner for a long time. The bar that we had in mind just did not
seem right, when we visited again. We decided to check all the restaurants
located close to the hotels/apartments and one made it finally, as it was
within easy reach for everyone and gave a beautiful view of Dresden’s famous
Frauenkirche. I made an appointment, talked to the very nice event manager and
thought that I would have to worry the least about this event on the list (oh,
so naïve!).
For the morning
after the wedding we had reserved tables for breakfast. That was very relaxed…
How did you actually plan everything in the end?
With a wonderful
chart! We had categories like formalities, outfit, travel and so on followed by
the actual events and their time spans, locations, number of guests. Together
with contacts, budget, state (mail, confirmed, etc.) and upcoming events
(marked with colors!). That was easy and effeicent. I could easy share it via
google doc and we could always check together what still needed getting done
and what is “save” already.
Why didn’t you stay in one location?
That is a good
question actually. We did not really think about it. To find the right location
with so few people is not easy. To keep moving was a good idea in the end.
There was always something to do and the interpreter (for our parents) was only
present for cake&coffee and the dinner. It never got boring this way…
Did you sent „Save the Date“s?
We never could
be 100% sure to keep our date but to prepare everyone a little we sent STD via
e-mail. I made a .pdf that looked nice enough and in the e-mail we told our
guests to wait for the invitations warning them that they’ll be late as we were
not sure about keeping the date.
How did you make the invitations? When did you
send them?
We only received
the final go from all the offices in February and in March we knew we could
have “our” date. The invitations were accordingly sent just one month before
the wedding.
We really wanted
to use the silhouettes of Paris and Dresden. I think that was Arnaud’s idea. We
spent a long afternoon in craft’s shops and discussed how we could manage to
make the invitations. With cards, blue paper, glue and a lot of enthusiasm we
started crafting. To cut out the silhouettes was too difficult in the end so we
printed them on the cards (in blue!). I wrote all the texts (and addresses) by
hand. The front shows our favorite kissing pictures with the date of the
wedding that we printed on blue paper. We tried making new pictures but they
just did not turn out well. To illustrate the important events of the day we added
a paper with a tram map to which I had added all the places, times and how to
get there.
We did not have
nice stamps due to the lack of time but nobody seemed to mind.
My post about it: http://louveaparis.blogspot.fr/2013/04/nos-invitations.html
How did you search for your wedding dress?
At some point I
felt like I had searched the entire internet. I needed to find out what I
wanted and from time to time i showed dresses to Arnaud. It was really
important to me that he thinks I look beautiful on our wedding day and he can
be very specific about what he likes… I fell in love with dresses in the
50ies/60ies style and really thought I might save some money ordering online.
Of course the only dress I liked was out of stock and after some friendly mails
it became clear that I would not get it. My personal dream dress is (still)
much too expensive, although Arnaud really liked it as well. At least I knew I
wanted sleeves, nothing superwhite, something blue somewhere, shorter and
swinging. It’s already something knowing what you want!
post wit ideas for dresses: http://louveaparis.blogspot.fr/2013/02/ce-que-je-veux-porter.html
How and where did you finally find it?
How and where did you finally find it?
I was getting
nervous because the date came closer and it became also „more possible“, while
i had not even tried any dress. In Paris I even researched dressmakers and
checked prizes. At some point I just had to book an appointment and just try
something. When we checked wedding locations in Dresden I made two appointments
in bridal shops, happy I could take my parents.
In the first
shop there were just no short dressed and although my “consultant” was nice and
assured me that everything could be shortened I got annoyed by the constant
“but actually it is too nice to cut”. The other ladies were worse, though, and
I was happy I did not get the one of the bride next to me. She already gave me
a strange look when I announced the budget. She basically advised her customer
by saying “but you only get married once!” (yeah, and the rest of the life you
keep on paying for it!). Well, at least there was a bolero I liked as I started
thinking that I would have to do without sleeves.
In the second
shop we had to wait long (a customer had been late and caused a delay
throughout the day – snow!) but the consultant was friendly. I already knew the
shop because a friend had bought her dress there and everything I remembered
was positive. When I mentioned I wanted a short dress I saw some worried lines
but she managed to dig up two short dresses and some other with that certain
vintage feel. My dress was the first I tried and I could not stop smiling when
I tried it. It was even under budget (who knew that all the other stuff adds up
so much later???)! I tried the other short dress but I looked a bit like a
ballerina muffin… anyway, the best thing about my dress is a kind of inner belt
that gives you so much comfortable stability. Nice! It is from Amélie
Bridal by the way and you can find it here >>>. I did not want
to try more and we did not have time anyway (more appointments!) but as we all
were so happy it was just the right choice. I’ll never forget my father’s big
smile… fortunately I got some more volume like I wanted and a matching bolero
jacket (one came with the dress but was too short for me) as well as the
fascinator in the same shop (it is called “in due” and you can find it online here
>>>).
Why is your dress short?
I really wanted
to be able to freely move and also go to toilet alone without worrying. I feel
like the cut of the dress is one that really suits me and i love the idea to
change the dress‘ color and wear it again. After having seen my shoes after our
photo shoot I was happy to have chosen a short dress. I did not have to worry
about it being dirty at any point. The photographer congratulated me as well –
her dress got super dirty during her wedding – especially after we had taken
the pictures directly at the Elbe river. Everybody who talked to me said that
I’d made a good choice and what I heard most was “it’s just you!”.
Hand on heart: did you go on any kind of diet?
I guess it was
the first time i really thought about making a diet. Weirdly i felt thinner
everytime i tried my dress and was worried i would not fit in at the big day.
Having no discipline whatsoever I did not go on any diet, though. I started
doing some sports to survive the day (I normally do not really wear heels) and
being not a huge fan of my arms I wanted them to look good enough… my husband
was quite the same. His suit was tailored just for him and before the wedding a
little belly suddenly appeared. He had to take care of that.
Did the groom see the dress before the wedding?
I really would
have liked to show it to him but he wanted to keep it a secret. He knew the
color (he had a little piece of fabric to match his outfit) and length… I just
had to tell him that much! Another reason I bought it in Dresden. That way i
was never tempted to just reveal it to him. I did show him the muffin dress,
though. He hated it! Well, good choice.
He did not show
his suit as well! Post:
http://louveaparis.blogspot.fr/2013/03/costume-de-mariage.html
What do you think about all those expensive bridal magazines?
What do you think about all those expensive bridal magazines?
I got mine all
from my mother. I guess i would not have bought more than one for myself. You
get a lot of ideas on the magazine’s websites. I think they can be a good
inspiration, once you find the one that works for you.
Post: http://louveaparis.blogspot.fr/2013/02/quelque-chose-lire.html
Where and how did you find your wedding rings?
Where and how did you find your wedding rings?
When we visited
Dresden for our preparations we also wanted to check rings. We were convinced
they would be more expensive in Paris. We went to „Juwelier Wahl“ in Dresden
first. The service was super friendly, helpful and quiet in this nice way. We
agreed on a design we both liked and took pictures of our favorites to think
about it. After leaving the store we just did not feel like spoiling the
experience by any other store. Via mail we kept contact and during our second
visit we just talked about measure and engraving. We even got our first
congratulations in Paris from them – with glittery hearts in the envelope! Our
rings are made of Palladium… it turns blue when you heat it up by the way.
How did you find the other accessories?
Having so much
of the „something blue“ we also wanted to have all the rest! My „something
borrowed“ were the wedding gloves of Arnaud’s grandmother, my wedding dress was
obviously “something new”. I had an old button in the shape of a heart from my late
grandmother sewed to my corsage. The coin was a 5-Pence-Piece from our last visit
to London.
I have talked
about the rest at length here:
accessoires: http://louveaparis.blogspot.fr/2013/04/decoration.html
shoes: http://louveaparis.blogspot.fr/2013/04/une-touche-de-bleue.html
gloves: http://louveaparis.blogspot.fr/2013/03/les-gants-blancs.html
How did you choose the flowers?
shoes: http://louveaparis.blogspot.fr/2013/04/une-touche-de-bleue.html
gloves: http://louveaparis.blogspot.fr/2013/03/les-gants-blancs.html
How did you choose the flowers?
I did not want
roses. That much I knew. I like ranuncula and luckily it’s their season at the
end of april. I did not leave them alone in all their whiteness so I added blue
forget-me-not-s. I really liked the flower’s meanings. the florist was my
mother’s choice and we visited her twice to talk about everything. The bouquet
turned out pretty much the way I wanted it to.
How long did it take to find everything in the
right blue?
In one of the
comments I’d been asked if I’ve bought the entire stock of „my blue“. Well,
sorry to disappoint you but it was much easier than that. My starting point
were my shoes. I wanted them to be blue and did not think of the rest yet. When
I went shoe shopping with Arnaud it thought I might not even get any. Blue did
not seem as fashionable before the wedding (afterwards there suddenly was a ton
of nice blue shoes available!). One of my favorite shoes stores in Paris andré finally had
a nice pair. I really wanted Arnaud to buy the shoes with me as he has a very
special taste (some might even call it picky). This blue was quite a challenge
because I could not find anything else in the same shade. I guess I succeeded
in finding enough blue things that were close enough… I found Arnaud’s laces
while on a stroll (and a month later I had the courage to just go into the
store and buy them). The earrings are from forever21 and I just painted them
with my wedding nail polish (essence) to match the shades. I did the same with
the ribbons on my shoes (claire’s). I could not influence the blue of Arnaud’s
suit or the ribbons that my parents used for the flowers nor the nice
decoration on Christiane’s car. Somehow it all came together and just matched
wonderfully.
Why did you hire a professional photographer? Is it worth it?
Maybe it was her
who made the colors look perfect? I already have written a post about Juliana
and Chrononauts Photography. Pictures as memories are really very important to
me and I know couples who deeply regretted later that they had not hired a pro.
So, let your friends (however talented) make their pictures but let them
celebrate with you as well and spare them the pressure of making the perfect
pictures of your big day. It is totally worth it to have a pro do the job! Take
enough time to find someone whose style fits with your ideas and personalities.
You really can experience the day again through those pictures and you’ll have
them for a life time… you can not repeat your wedding day.
about Chrononauts Photography:
http://louveaparis.blogspot.fr/2013/05/chrononauts-photography.html
our wedding on the blog of Chrononauts Photography:
http://www.chrononauts.de/eine-fruhlingshochzeit-im-herzen-von-dresden-julia-arnaud/
http://louveaparis.blogspot.fr/2013/05/chrononauts-photography.html
our wedding on the blog of Chrononauts Photography:
http://www.chrononauts.de/eine-fruhlingshochzeit-im-herzen-von-dresden-julia-arnaud/
Are there outtakes?
Juliana had
already deleted half closed eyes but we did not really have „bad pictures”…
just funny ones or ideas that did not work out (jumping in a short dress is not
very flattering from certain perspectives).
Who took care of your hair and make-up?
This seemed to
be a real problem for some time. I started looking around but could not find
anyone convincing. Fortunately Stephanie knew somebody. I had a rehearsal with
Nadine and on the wedding day she came to our apartment. The hair stayed in
place the whole day although I was not super-happy how it turned out. That was
more my uncertainty what to do exactly, though. The make-up was gone by the
time we did the couple shoot but in this heat nothing would have lasted. At
least the eye make-up stayed nice long enough (besides the sun there were tears
and wind of course!).
Did you receive any „good advice“? How did you deal with it?
Tons of it! From
every direction! No matter if involved or not. It really came as a surprise but
everyone seemed to have an opinion and some of them were real surprises. I was
happy to have some dear friends who just were happy with me and showed a lot of
enthusiasm about our ideas.
All in all it
was not too much but I still don’t get why things like princess gowns or horse
carriages have been suggested.
Did you make a list for gifts or something
alike?
We still have
not settled and we’re also not big fans of owning tons of stuff that makes it
harder to move. We wanted help with the organization and financially. The
traveling was expensive enough for the French side for example. Our families
provided the clothes (the bride buys her shows by herself, though), some
administration fees, the city tour, the food and the photographer. We just (did
I write just?) had to take care of fees, travel expenses, accommodation, rings
and styling… still enough but without the help of our families we could not
have done it (I did not want Arnaud to pay for everything and I am really not
rich. Yep, busted, she married for money!)
We still
received gifts, though… some were the reason why we did not want any in the
first place… towels is all i’ll say. Well, it’s the gesture that counts.
Did you have a set budget? How did you deal with it?
We checked how
much we would need and directly asked our families how much they would
contribute after they had offered to help. Both families spend about the same
for us. The most expensive thing for us were the wedding bands. I think
planning your budget and sticking to it is really important… somehow everything
seems to be so expensive as soon as it’s labeled “wedding” and you can’t do
everything yourself.
Did you have favors for the guests?
Oh, well… those.
In France it is a tradition to give away almonds but they were not really our
thing and too expensive as well. I found the idea of giving away jam jars in a
magazine and fortunately my brother is an awesome jam maker. I just dressed the
jars in blue and one is still waiting for our one-year-anniversary 2014.
Did you have bachelor/bachelorette parties?
We both did not
want any. Maybe having a “Polterabend” would have been nice, just a good time
with friends. While Arnaud was enjoying a nice quiet dinner with friends, I was
surprised by my Parisian friends with a bachelorette party. It started out
super nice as I was so touched by the gesture and their organization. They had
provided good food and drinks and we had a nice girl’s time with good music
talking about the coming wedding. When one of the ladies appeared to have drunk
too much the evening became weird… well, last time!
By now I think a
bridal shower starting off with a brunch and ending with a relaxed night out or
even a slumber party would have been ideal for me… a day just about me and the
happy pink future… oh, I’m such a girl!
How did you make the thank-you-notes?
All the paper
things we had bought for the invitations were enough for the thank-you-notes as
well. After we had received the pictures from Juliana we chose some for our
guests and printed them with a blue frame. We wrote notes for all our guests
and to all the people who had sent us cards. Everyone got a handwritten note
with an individual text… and another picture when we still had enough. Arnaud
wrote the five French ones. All in all we sent about thirty cards and I even
got lucky with the post office and had nice stamps this time.
What were your musical arrangements for the ceremony?
One of the
toughest decisions for me! At the registrar’s office there are different
offers. We did not want to have classical live music (only option for live
stuff) and did not like what they offered. Too much money for people (and whose
music) we did not even know. Having your own musicians was really expensive and
the titles they offered on CD was a joke… shocking at times! The lyrics are
important for such events (to me at least) and they seriously suggested stuff
dealing with death and loss or saying good-bye! I know that there are different
tastes but… no… not for me!
I was very happy
when I was told that it would be okay to bring our own CD (still 10 Euros
extra!). So only one question remained: which songs are we going to take???
As a couple we
have several memories connected to music but none worked with a wedding. We are
rather alternative but could imagine a double bass before saying “yes“ and head
banging along. We liked the idea, though, to create new musical memories for
this special day. We searched for weeks and clicked everywhere. In the meantime
I had shared my plight with Friederike who knows her alternative love songs.
She suggested some and one even made the list! Lyrics, music and length (they
play songs till the end which could be a long awkward pause for some) of „I want you“by Tom Waits was
just perfect and I walked down the aisle to it. The second song played
afterwards needed to be something happy and positive. Finally we decided to go
with „This will be our Year“ and it was
just perfect.
Why did you not get married in a religious ceremony?
Woah, that’s a
personal question! Well, although Arnaud is a baptized catholic he is not a big
fan of organized religion. He leaves me doing my stuff, though, which is
important to me. After having seen two people doing the big church thing just
because it is sooo awesome, like in the movies… it was just clear to me that I
would not want to do this if one cannot give a “yes!” coming from the heart. Pretending
like that is stupid to me.
Did one of you panic?
As my husband
really thinks thoroughly before making decisions he did not panic. He would not
even have proposed i guess... or he hid it really well. I had one moment when I
was sitting on the balcony being super tired and overwhelmed by preparations
and the announcement that we were going to move to Berlin in autumn. It was
just a little too much. My heart was racing and I thought that “forever” is a
really long time. It did not last long but I think that might be normal… it is
okay to think it through and wanting to be sure.
Did you fight because of all the preparations
and pressure?
I can’t
remember. Actually we always were happy when something worked out or we got a
go from someone. Arnaud let me do my whirling and whooshing but we always
talked through big decisions. Fortunately we have a similar taste and did not
have to fight. Just his idea of taking the night train one day before the
wedding was not the best thing… well, what would I be without my black circles
eyes?
What were your worries? What did not work?
I’ll try to keep
this one short as the day was wonderful… overall. It’d do it again as long as I
could call Arnaud husband at the end of the day. But maybe you’re in the middle
of planning and want to know some stuff that can be avoided…
I guess i should
have taken more time with hair and
make-up. I could not really communicate what i wanted and was not even sure
about the hair. I did not have time to search for someone knew after the
rehearsal. My face looked weird afterwards. On the wedding day it was alright
but not perfect. I don’t look like myself on some pictures.
Speaking of…. i
really would have loved to have somebody being very critical about my
appearance during the photo shooting. I can be a little
perfectionist and there are pictures where my dress looks wrinkly and I just
want to get it in place… maybe a rehearsal shooting would have been nice as
well.
We were late for
the wedding cake because of an
accident (not us, everyone alive) and all the other guests seemed to be melting
away while silently waiting for us. They had not mingled at all and our
interpreter sat in the middle trying her best… as I had just had a moment of
deep happiness after realizing I am married now, I just did not care about
entertaining anyone.
During dinner we managed to tell people to
mingle but, hey, we did not even have the room we booked. Something went wrong
with the event manager. Sad, because I was so sure that this would go smoothly.
Bridezilla would have killed somebody.
Smaller
accidents like my dirty shoes that lost their ribbons in the way were no
problem at all. I had forgotten the second bolero jacket for the dress (but my
husband did not like it that much when i showed it to him later) and my
expensive tighs had to be replaced after the ceremony already (now the cheap replacement
is on so many pictures). You cannot change your family and just have to accept
them as they are. Fortunately there are always people who do/say the perfect
things…
What was the best moment during your wedding
day?
That is not an easy question. I think if I had to decide it would be the
moment when Arnaud turned around while I walked down the aisle. It was the
first time I saw him crying because he was overwhelmed with emotion.
How was the wedding night?
Why do i ask such a question? Because several people really asked it several times. Seriously! Several times! I found that really strange and at some point i just said „my husband is French“.
What should you have with you on your wedding day?
A really good
friend like Christiane thinking about everything! Otherwise I recommend two
pairs of nice tighs, all those refreshing things (a nice scent, deodorant,
lippgloss etc.), a sewing kit, nail polish, water, feet comoforting stuff…
well, you know what you need. Just pack it up in advance and give away some
responsibility to somebody you really trust… they think about stuff like
alcohol free champagne!
What is your advice to others who want to get married?
Whatever may be
your dream wedding just go for it and try doing everything together. Stay
realistic and don’t lose each other as a couple. The bride is not marrying
herself and the wedding should celebrate the couple… not the little girl who
has dreamt of a pink wedding with the groom being just some decoration. Advice
will be coming from all sides and you shouldn’t get overwhelmed. Stay with “Thank
you, we’ll think about it!” or “What a nice idea!” and “We’re not that far with
our planning yet.” Really find out what you do n-o-t want and make it clear.
Take it as a given that your friends and family will want to surprise you… but
also that they usually think well about it. It’s useful to have somebody with
an overview about how the day is planned. Try to find someone who knows you as
a couple and on whom you can rely with the program and the times. It is rather
relaxing to “outsource” this.
What is your husband’s advice on the topic?
„just don’t care about the others“
Would you do it all over again?
During the day we
joked that „next time we’ll do it different!“ but also the things that went
wrong belong to the day now. As long as I could call Arnaud my husband again at
the end of the day… who cares about catastrophes – of course i’ll do it all
over again.
What would you do differently if possible?
I’ll just quote Arnaud: „it was just perfect!
shut up!“.
How does it feel to be married?
really really
really wonderfully awesome
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